OKIE HELLO EVERYONE. So 2013 has started and this is my first post of the year! It's too late to wish people happy new year haha This year I'm gonna stop making NYResolutions. i think it's impossible for me to ever accomplish some of them and i guess some of them are just unrealistic, or merely expectations of myself. speaking of expectations, sometimes i don't like people to expect things out of me. like, we personally have our own expectations of ourselves. and usually we accomplish our own expectations. but then, people have greater expectations of us, a lot greater than our expectations. this is when things get warped. Because people have expectations of us, we somehow infuse their expectations into our expectations. it's like we don't want to disappoint ourselves, nor other people. Give you an example: you expect yourself to get distinction for a subject. you work hard for it. yes u get it. u get an A2 and you're happy....