I need to ask something. How do you know when someone is selfish? When someone thinks of themselves and not think of others? I don't really understand. I've been thinking about it for the past 1 year but I can't really find an answer. Situation: If you ask your friend to do something for you, and your friend doesn't want to... You get angry. Is your friend selfish because he/she doesn't want to help? OR Are you selfish because you want someone to do something for you? Does anyone get what I'm trying to say? Because your friend can be selfish if he/she doesn't want to take his/her time off to help you. Your friend can be self-centered OR you can be the selfish one because when other people are not doing what you request, you get angry. So in a way, you're just thinking for yourself. So now, who is the selfish one? I can't seem to find any answer. Some people may think it depends on what is the 'thing...